And "stewing over" something is an idiom that means you're taking time to think over something (usually emotionally), but that was the point of my joke (again, not realizing that Stew posts more than I thought).
... @nGord got ur point there about stewing over. thats why i respond with. "let just boil everything up"... most of time i couldnt hold my temper, ended up talking relentlessly in full throttle lol